I love to be petted, and hugged, but only when I'm comfortable with the person, and not around my shoulders or neck from behind.
I do like a thorough massage but I need to be in control, I hate someone coming up behind me and touching my shoulders. Top of my head is fine.
And I pretty much love all hugs all the time.
It's nice to hear people talking about it openly. :)
And it's a bit sad to me that quite a few people don't like it at all. I wonder if they would, in a world with different social rules.
But whatever petting regime you prefer, I hope you recieve it. ^.^