What are some phrases that piss you off?

[echogecko]

@MediocreMetastasis
ive seriously questioned if i have ocd cuz im very sure my mum has it. theres a chance i may but i think a lot of the stuff i was describing was amplified becuase i was in the worst mental state of my life. Im better now! just struggling with depression rather than severe anxiety.

chronophobia is still in my life a bit, ive just chosen to tell myself time doesnt exist and i can live in any year i feel like it XD

[MediocreMetastasis]

@echogecko That's good to hear. I know my brain refuses to believe we are not in 2020 anymore.

(p.s. Vargskelethor is the GOAT)

[AY38910]

When someone tells a person with severe depression to "cheer up" without realizing that depresson is that you're physicallly unable to cheer up. It pisses me off because I've met depressed people (and one of them was my aunt after giving birth to my cousin (postpartum depression exists, y'all!)) and when someone does that it just pisses them off and only makes things worse in many cases. And that pisses me off because honestly? When you provoke someone with depression things could go...well, very badly.

[GlitchyZorua]

"Oooohhh stop it, You'll be fine..."

Ugh...

[lakes]

"you'd look pretty if you smiled more/[some other inane bs]" do i even need to explain this one? it's such a backhanded compliment and it also assumes you want to look "pretty" by the standards of whatever gender you're assumed to be
fuck that

[dark_angel93]

I like this thread. Lets be pissed of! It's so healthy.
I am personaly pissed of by most common sayings, just becouse they are common and a person saying it doesn't take time to think what it is he is repeating.

[H0ppin_H00ligan]

"I can fix her"

I fucking hate this phrase so much. I see people say this about fictional women ALL THE TIME!!! And hell, even REAL women back when i used twitter!! People would ALWAYS comment that on womens' mugshots and EVEN ON A PHOTO OF THE WOMAN WHO DREW THE ASSETS FOR THE BORED APE NFTS!!!! It just shows that you don't give a shit about the nuances she has to her character (or even the fact that A REAL-WORLD WOMAN KILLED SOMEONE) and just see her as a thing you can fetishize.

I know that fictional characters don't have feelings, but as a woman myself: i hate the fact that some people see a woman acting even the SLIGHTEST bit assertive and start getting fantasies of "taming" her into THEIR ideals. I feel like it also kinda shares some DNA with calling people "fatherless" as an insult, just flat out saying that they should have a big strong man putting them in their place because they're acting SLIGHTLY weird. It's so misogynistic.