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Thought it was worth mentioning: Tumblr and letterboxd accounts both have in-built RSS feeds, so if you'd like to follow some people without using the sites themselves, that would be my recommendation. I use letterboxd this way and really enjoy it - I can get film recs without having to deal with letterboxd & serializd's tendency to shove bad takes from total strangers at me.

I don't disagree with any of the criticisms of Tumblr in this thread - it is, indeed, having a serious problem with racist and transmisogynist moderation at the moment - but I have been using it for a decade and am unreasonably attached to the hellsite. If you do go that route: pretty much all of the algorithm features can be switched off in settings; Xkit Rewritten is a godsend; make liberal use of the block button.

Re. finding new interests, it really just comes down to finding people whose opinions you trust, no matter what form that takes. I have a Tumblr mutual with incredibly good taste in TV shows; if they start blogging about something, I know to give it a try. I have friends who buy me books for Christmas. Critics are also great for filling this role - I get most of my horror film recs from Sarah Zedig's YouTube videos. Go beyond 'are we into the same media?' and into 'what are my thematic/aesthetic/political priorities for what I consume? how far are we on the same page?'. This is, in my opinion, worth doing just for the sake of clarifying why it is you like the things you like - but it has the added bonus of making it much easier to seek out new interests.

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The prince chose to sleep on, and the princess chose to wake up. At the top of that tall tower, the princess bid farewell to the prince. No—she wasn’t the princess any longer. She quit being a “person (thing) ruled by someone”. The victory bells rang, but there was no “tower (rule)” beyond them now. She’d learned where freedom lay. [...]

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