]but also, i don't like talking about myself or trying to describe myself and i'm not good at it! and i don't really know what other people would even want to know about me. if something about me is relevant then it's probably obvious in context, and if it's not obvious, i mostly don't think it's relevant.

or, the things that might not be obvious which i think are relevant i don't see a need to gather in a dedicated page because i just put them on my homepage. i have some names you can address me by, and i have a trans flag, the anarcho-communist flag, and an ACAB stamp on my home page, because i think those are pieces of somewhat useful contextual information for someone to know about me that are not otherwise communicated. if someone doesn't know what they mean then they can google it if they wanna; i don't care! they're there to let people opt out of the website if they don't want to look at a website webmastered by someone of my persuasion and to remind people that people like me exist and have hobbies and interests besides "being trans" and "being an anarcho-communist" and that it is a perfectly normal way to be. same reason i have a progress pride flag hanging on my house, i guess.
apart from that... if someone wants to contact me they can use my guestbook, if someone wants to know what i put on my web site then they can look at my web site! they're already on it. it's not that many more clicks; if they don't care additional clicks worth, then there's no particular reason to make sure they get that information anyway. nobody's dying of what-are-xixxii's-favorite-video-games-deficiency.
there's plenty of information on my website about me! it's not really a privacy thing. it's just that i don't see why someone would want to know what type of video games i like outside of the context of the page where i talk about video games i've played.
also, i'm just not a very social person in general! my website isn't supposed to be a "profile" or a representation of myself or something through which people can "get to know me" or an invitation to socialize. it's not a blog or a networking tool or a replacement for social media for me, either! it's a collection of things i made or found or gathered up and i think are fun or interesting or useful. it all just feels very "not applicable" to me and how i'm using my web site! i am on discord and social media and forums and such to socialize, not my website. if someone can't find me through any of those places AND doesn't want to use the guestbook, then.............. too bad, lol!
i don't have anything against it as a concept; it's just not what i'm doing or interested in for myself! i like looking at blogs and portfolios and profile-type sites, i just don't want to make one.