This is a really hard question, and one that I've been struggling with for a while now. Especially after finishing the second draft of my first novel, I'm wondering how in the world I want to share it with other people. And I do want to share it, which is a bit annoying, but I'd like people to see my silly characters and maybe even identify with a few of their struggles. It's already sort of happened in my beta reads, which is very cool.
Obviously self-publishing is the "easiest" upfront, although that comes with other problems such as the need to be my own marketer, having to spend a fair bit of money on material for that, (which I have no problem with; I just don't have that money in the first place LOL) and from what I've seen it effectively requires some kind of social media presence, which I currently do not have much of an interest towards. I have self-published a short story on my website and even tried to advertise it a little, but it never really got anywhere.
Traditional publishing would mitigate a lot of the problems I would run into in self-publishing, although it comes with its own issues, namely that querying seems like a bit of a nightmare, and my book does not fit neatly within a "popular" genre. It is fantasy with romance elements, although the romance is not the focus. Further, I have no clue how exactly to pitch my book! And that's kind of the most important part of a query letter! Then there's the worry that a publisher would ask me to compromise some parts of my story for the purposes of being more widely marketable, but I don't actually know how often that actually happens / if it does happen at all.
I think the answer to the question might be yes, but I'm afraid. Writing for me is extremely intimate, and effectively having a product of my being seen and judged is very scary!