Oh dude!! Anime conventions are like one of my favorite places ever!!
I don't want to just dump my life story here but honestly it's where I made most of my friends in my youth and then met friends of those friends for the social network I have now as an adult. I live in a small rural town in a southern state of the USA so a lot of people here view the world quite a bit different to say the least!
So the small conventions around me are kind of the best place to meet cool people in my area lol
Anime and manga as well as cosplay are like HUGE interests of mine, I love animation/cartoons in general so being able to bring that to life in an art form like cosplay is soooooo cool!!
I've attended two cons this year and plan to hopefully do a third one yee
I know I'm up there in age compared to a lot of folks here but I don't think I'll ever stop going to them as long as I'm able to afford it! Legit will probably be out there cosplaying all my favorite old characters when I'm wrinkly.
They're like the vacations I look forward to the most, and I always have a blast going to them with my friends and partners, as well as meeting cool new people there we've got stuff in common with!
It's a lot of fun to support all the skilled artists, buy cool stuff, and check out the events/panels too!! I have found out from attending ACEN though that I really do prefer smaller cons. I didn't have a ton of fun since I'm pretty short and it was shoulder to shoulder! I could hardly check anything out or really talk to people because of how crowded it was lol
It's also neat to see a lot of people having similar experiences, and to those that have had bad ones I'm sending a lot of well wishes to you!! I hope you guys can find a space, con or not, where you feel comfortable and safe!